Birthday, 13th December 2008

After three days of calling arranging and rearranging this is what your suprise is....

A small party with your family, your school friends, your college friends, my friends and vikram!

I hope you had a good time, it was fun going behind your back, stealing the phone number from your iphone, being the wierdo whos asking for a night out to peopl he only hears about every day!!!

I'm sure when I first called freddie he must have thought "vicky who?" But Anyway, that said and done, here are the list of ideas that I had for your birthday...

"Pool Party" - afternoon brunch on a sunday at the oberoi sky heights ...but those damn office people dont allow food near the pool!! Why even have a pool????

Paintball Party - Would have been awesome fun, and we will do this once we come back from Dubai

Bowling Alley Night - Disco lights, drinks and bowling....but the damn thing was booked through the weekend

You and ME Party - But I figured you need to mix things up cant be a dinner date every time, so I did the rope a dope....you can ask me what that means when we meet up

But in the end, budget constraints led me to the best available option!!! BOOZING AND DANING AT VIKRAMS! WITH YOUR PEOPLE!!!!

I'm gonna put an extra effort to make sure all your friends are comfortable! I will be my premarriage charming dude! Just not flirty!

So,

cake ...check
booze ... check
food....check
Manali....check (you have to remember this story)

And yeah, I reminded Manali to call your brother, Neeraj!!! Kudos to me.....

Wanted to buy you a cell phone (too expensive) tried selling my old phones, damn ALFA is a chor when it comes to buying old phones, new laptop (minimum 50K at Croma, thought what would ALLY love more ,,,, A bag ? hmm or a new laptop....) I went with the bag!

So, in a nutshell your cheap husband is writing a memoir to you on your birthday...

Everyone keeps talking about how marriage is difficult,
How you have to make adjustments, have to accomodate...
Since that fateful day, there hasn't been an instance, an hour or a minute
That I can imagine, without you in it

You have made my every wish come true
I feel like a small kid again, thinking how great it is to be with you
I can't wait to write more lines, more pages, about us
I can't wait to be again, in amsterdam, in goa, in paris

I used to think that I'll be a tennis player, a basketball star, when I grow up
Can't think of a better way, now, to 'have been' than how I have ended up!

MORE LATER!!!!

Don't wanna be late with the champaign

Love Letter

Hey...I figured there was only one way that I could write you the love letter you always wanted me to write. I'd have to do it in a 'cool' way. So here it is this is officially my post for you and only you...I will write for the rest of my life so that only you can, in your own sweet time, read my thoughts....and I promise to write often...and only because you will read it, I can write anything I want.

So here goes...

I was driving to work and being my obsessive self was listening to the new atif aslam from Kismat connection. And I listened to the words carefully today...
"Kaise bataye tumhe,
Aur kis tarah yeh,
Kitna tumhe hum chahte hai,
Saaya bhi tera dikhe,
To paas jaake,
Usmein simat hum jaate hai,
Raasta tum hi ho,
Rehnuman tum hi ho,
Jiski khwahish hai humko,
Wo panah tum hi ho,Tum hi ho, beshumaar,
Tum hi ho..Tum hi ho, mujh mein haan,Tum hi ho.."

And you were the one who was filling my thoughts while atif went crazy with his singing in the background and all I could do is, SMILE.

You know since I was a kid I have been in love with a hindi love songs, and whenever I obsessed over a song, I would have no face to associate it with.

But you have taken that blank face in a hindi love song and you have slowly and steadily filled every hindi love song for me. You have completed all my boyhood dreams of what love should be like, what a woman should be....I can try but I can never thank you for fulfilling my dreams so fully and completely...for fulfilling my fantasies, however corny/crazy they might be....for loving me, my family, my friends, and always making the extra effort and for always being the bigger person...I'm sorry that I am not this expressive in person, but I promise through this medium I will be better....

Iwant you to know that I treasure everything that we have together, and when you say that I could not have it any better, I know that you are so spot on...I'm just to stupid to agree with you in person....but I know you still like me

So...Thank you...

Thank you for south africa,
Thank you for france
Thank you for amsterdam
Thank you for Kruger National
Thank you for sid
Thank you for nato
Thank you for the nisha, meenu thing
Thank you for making my ma your ma
Thank you for making my dad your dad
Thank you for tennis
Thank you for flash
Thank you for gym
Thank you for bearing with my snoring
Thank you for bearing with my farting
Thank you for bearing with my laziness and not partying enough
Thank you for your patience and understanding and loving and caring nature, it overwhelms me and right now I have tears in my eyes because all this is coming from my heart and it is coming with no hesitation




I hope I can do half of what you do, with one tenth of the grace you do it with

I Love you

Your Husband Forever